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How parents can retain their authority

Partners who are controlling or narcissistic during a marriage are unlikely to change after a divorce. This may present a variety of challenges as it relates to raising a child after the marriage is over. However, there are a variety of ways that parents in California can meet and overcome these challenges in an effective manner. It is important for someone who is raising a child to know that they can only control themselves.

This means that these individuals need to model the behavior that they want their children to exhibit now and in the future. It is also important to create rules and enforce them in a consistent manner. While the other parent may not hold a child accountable for his or her actions, that child can still benefit from the structure in one household. It is also a good idea to limit the amount of contact that a person has with an ex.

Doing so could cut down on the number of chances that a former partner has to abuse or demean an individual. It may also minimize the odds that a fight will break out in the vicinity of a child. In most cases, children are hurt or traumatized when they hear their parents fighting, and this can be especially true when they are the focal point of the argument.

If a dispute arises during or after a divorce, it may be best to let another party step in and help resolve it. This additional party could be an attorney, a mediator or a judge. Going to court or to mediation to solve a problem may prevent a person from experiencing physical or emotional stress or abuse. When adults keep their stress levels in check, it may benefit their children.

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